MARRIAGE PROBLEMS

MARRIAGE PROBLEMS;
Familial ties and social life of our country as the behavior of the people in the community to be effective for people of adult age at marriage are continuing their lives. Although the term "non-you, inside me burn" pattern are also overseas the work according to the 45-65 age group, married men the same age group, unmarried and living with respect to men, 10 years death rates two times less respectively. Married men have a chance to live longer are present.

Marriage is the most important issue among peer communication duration and the quality deficiency, their families and spouses of the family and their relationships, social life, for the behavior and feel Apprehended, economic problems, coping, occupational status problem solving that they use the roads, if you have children if their care and upbringing different views angles, and lack of sexual impropriety, and be counted.

Marital problems in pregnancy, low or abortion, have children, severe illness, hospitalized of intense economic distress period, occupational position changes, a new settlement transport (especially our community in our patriarchal life patterns, economic issues, marriage, young people and parents on the border between Due to problems with marriage after by young men living in a place very close to them or in the form), which could affect the lives of individuals such as retirement after many changes can begin.

More severely ill or their children to other children after an accident or illness results in death or divorce is increasing.

Sexual problems in marriage leads to problems: Women vaginismus, anorgasmia, premature ejaculation and erectile in men (erectile dysfunction in sexual organs) dysfunction can be counted. These are psychological in origin and with high probability, can be treated are among the problems. If individuals have a homosexual orientation, and yet the path to marriage has been due to social pressure, problem solving difficult. In our society, frequently encountered sexual problems usually before, even in childhood, experienced harassment in relation to the can, as in the family sexual knowledge by the parent properly taught to not, hearsay, false information to obtain, in the family opposite sex communication with the strictly limited and are frightened and can develop. With young people so often with the opposite sex when they marry their first sexual experience, or about over-enthusiasm, the problem with performance anxiety and fear leads to sexual interference. Sometimes inspire young people with their friends or some relatives, and paid into inappropriate sexual relationships, compared with the first experience is negative and approaches, as this enhances their performance anxiety. If individuals are having sexual problems, they should be treated in the early stages of their relationship to their current job should not put off till tomorrow, and their spouses should not fret. Both the frequency and type of sexual partner's request must be in person. Sexuality should be coupled with love, rather than a mechanical action, so to be transformed into a fine art show.

Different sociocultural levels (different religions, nationalities, sects, with different family structures, such as socioeconomic status), each with very different socio-cultural values and judgments as they may experience marital problems. Individuals from the environment to confront oppression and coercion are not on the structure and material and moral power is not required for this, they may not take care of each other and their marriage. However, both the necessary environment to set boundaries with sufficient background and personality, the marriage could be so perfect

Communication levels: the spouses to each other as they set up the verbal communication and body language

(Small talk with each other, such as the inability to share their troubles) is still inadequate and poor quality of marital problems can start early. Birbileri by spouses be able to cry, should express their love in every way. "I love you," say the non-verbal thousand kinds of ways (a small gift, a different meal, he sent a nice letter or picture, your partner like a bunch of flowers, the week or end together to do a little sightseeing, etc..) Morning, when they leave kissing each other, wished success to the door when your husband comes home with a pretty face, nice to meet in clothing, are among those. Moreover, only their own wives to each other, liked each other a team with great appeal should make a habit to call (my darling, my baby, my love, etc.). Get their feet under the spouses unless the brain can find them. However, we dispose of our brain, unfortunately, with television to be Involved in the extreme, absurd in the form of pride because it is one of the most common.

In fact, every marriage should be a confederation model. If the pair formed one of the individuals who violate another's rights, you interfere with his freedom if the decisions taken in accordance with the request if one side continually, marriages are deadlocked. As well as every institution of marriage should be conducted in a democratic manner.

Time sharing: individuals in the marriage constantly having to do with anything should be. Activities that will surely also be spending time together, but individuals from time to time with their friends and the environment should have spent time apart from each other. To listen to the orchestra, and sometimes this, sometimes consisting of a single instrument is like listening to a solo album. People own the rights to the spouses of the same should be recognized. Master-slave relationship would be otherwise, and this relationship becomes synonymous with the foundation to put the dynamite.

Your work and family life adversely affected the environment of prevention: A piece of people's daily life in the circus of the demonstrators in a 4-5 ball in the air like behavior is to return. Each ball should be held in a certain time or touch each other at the same speed and direction should be taken. One of the more kept getting the ball rolled slowly or, in other ball is dropped. Similarly, if the self, spouse, occupation and environment do not take enough time, one of them, even though others in time delay is damaged. In a similar way to the forefront again is your only friend, coming home late, your partner do it without all of your entertainment if you can still have a problem. Your happiness on the unhappiness of others should be established. Everyone is different, and none in others, not destroy. To handle excess Involved cause you to neglect your home, if parents can not be a good wife and good will. The bill that will pay much more expensive in the long term. Marital problems, children problems, health problems may be encountered. Here are the problems in the home, who happened to work at home moved. You hear everything around you to your partner, your partner for everything that you hear in your environment should not move. Otherwise the solution is very difficult to assign home nodes to meet the material needs of the job is only one direction. Spiritual home, love needs to be met. Spouses and children not only love of money is also needed.

Concentrate only spouses: All your life or your partner should build on, you should not expect anything from him. You do your own work and be able to provide satisfaction of your relationships with your surroundings. Otherwise you are jealous of your wife, your marriage, begin to restrict his life is in jeopardy. You must also learn to roast your own oil.

Former position (childhood) to the new position (adulthood) transition idraki: Now that you're living in a family of new institutions for the health of the future than you cultured, you will grow healthy and happy for people who have to struggle. Your Life You are at a higher maturity level has been exceeded. Despite this, still the old home children act as if the parents of your your life as they mix and routing If you allow your own principles and your way with your life, maintain your not required to reach maturity means, that your marriage poorly healing will help. Do not feel mature enough for marriage itself, or could not reach the maturity level of people who should not marry.

Get to know each other and not wearing a mask: the people who adulthood, especially in rural areas, according to the decisions of families are married to each other without knowing enough. In some cases, with family pressure, no friend of the opposite sex is not the first person people meet when they marry and have opinions. In this case, people who hide their real properties and wear face masks are deceiving. As a result of their "sweetheart months at the end of" tends to start problems, and individuals, "it was not my favorite person," he can. Or it seems to be, or to appear as the most humane yaklaşımdır.evlilik must be open before the people against each other and see the negative side may be able to talk time and quality.

To determine the limits and to protect: our society, young people are often living with their families until marriage. In some cases, to marry the young age have been working alongside his father. In such cases, young people and can not have enough power to literally look at their hands can become. Mothers and their children in extremely kollayıcı them by creating a dependent personality, their ability to live in their own hands are received. In such cases, families with young people in the same apartment or live in the apartment, young people often have to intervene. If these problems can be experienced at the border and father-son, daughter-sister-in-law, daughter-mother-in-law conflicts, son-father-in-law or sister-in-law were seen between the misunderstanding.

Extramarital sexual relationships: Marriage of each of the pair be able to renew itself, able to protect their lives from the monotony. Must honor each other, should not belittle each other's tastes, their ideas must be respected, must be maintained and shared plans and goals should be. People do not value their own and they are not well maintained home in lovely, understanding their dissatisfaction or self create an environment if there are any sexual relationship with evlilikdışı can access. No one person is caught someone else does not have to share germs. People are betrayed in this case is established there is no excuse to cheat, but results are not without reason. If both sides want the problems in the infrastructure will be done at a depth therapy. However, one element that is reluctant, decided to divorce, the force is not beauty.

Inappropriate expectation levels: within individuals as well as from each other not be able to very high expectations. The most perfect love, in laughter, living in constant entertainment should not be expected. The feet do not touch the ground this way too romantic disappointment of expectations you can stop. Histrionic personality traits among the people be called as a continuous, excessive levels of support and be a permanent addition to his wife want to be number one. Whereas a marriage is not child's play, people around the business should also take time. You can not buy someone else's freedom to marry entirely. Especially girls and their families in their difficult economic situation because of strained relations, and unrealistic expectations because of early marriage can "jump out of the frying pan into the fire" may fall into the more negative situations. Only those who act with a sense of frustration they must walk hand in hand emotions and logic.

Struggle for authority: Marriage is a power struggle, is not a pitched battle. Everyone should protect their own areas and not in each other sanctions. Of course, to be the personality of individuals should not have problems. "Always I am right, it's unfair, the truth, I know, my word law" in the shape of approaches can become narcissistic and over-order and solid principles is equipped with the obsessive personality and the other one on the authority to establish work. This causes constant friction. Marriage is not a pitched battle. A victory can be achieved in this way, but the victory of the war is as Pirus. On both sides of the fight is broken. Winner of the very few survivors, even when victory is meaningless.

Weakening of women as biological and psychological understanding of the terms are met: Pregnancy and breastfeeding women are among the most difficult period they are. They also have women's monthly menstruation (menstruation) period, the blood loss has been brought to their weakness. As well as those living in the hormonal storm also not, hurricanes them to stress much weaker pertains times a man's wife is more understanding to meet the home with the relationship even more, increasing the load and shoulder should be. If unable to fatherhood or motherhood remove feeling of maturity, you should not have kids. Each other as I'm still experiencing difficult economic period, you will be unhappy, you should not marry. Angry when anger you control you can not (which is further term cardiovascular problems would be too), your spouse or children of violence, if problems after drinking or addictive substances which bow to you again, marriage deserves're not. Of course, some features you do not like seeing your wife, without waiting to burst inside you have to say. Expression, but in doing so you keep your calm and your body language, logic, not shelved, must act without mushy. If you act like an elephant entering glassware shop process, and justify this behavior when away from your goal you will fall into wrong situations, you will damage your marriage. Do not forget that sugar is removed from the snake hole. What do your children see, those made today, tomorrow you may apply to someone else, the wind will reap storm planted.

Responsibility to know: home jobs, child care, shopping, etc.. is not the responsibility of one person. If the woman is trying to make men work at home mom just should not be installed katılmalıdır.çocuğun care. Your spouse and your children what you want in the future to establish a foundation of good days at a very early if you do not live in the future you'll have good days is only imaginary. Each element of this responsibility by married couples should participate in, the task should not be neglected. He will reap what you added.

You sacrificed the children for the marriage hasbelkader to maintain: just "my children motherless or fatherless growth should," he your marriage of love, without continuing, if a troubled marriage, live because you or your children spiritually as negatively affected. Mother and father are among the materially and spiritually as well as the lack of children may be even more traumatic, and they can also lead to be unhappy in his marriage. Sometimes separately, but happy parents, the children together every day better than unhappy couples can grow. Despite any disadvantages for your child to keep your marriage at an early age can lead to exhaustion and the fact that fewer children will be helped.

Alcohol, drug and gambling habits, such as: If one spouse in such a habit that they financial, emotional, social and familial marriage can cause communication problems are blemishes. The presence of these situations can often lead to divorce. Accumulated from the past to solve problems of this kind of bad habits and daily misery instead went to a psychiatrist must provide therapy.

Key to your happiness, you're in: Wedding smart, soulful, honest and fair is the people's business. If the person themselves against their putting unable that empathy can not, I always am right, my wife wrong too, if the crime forces its horses if (this personality disorder criterion is), self-responsibility and not doing, to solve the efforts sarfetmiyorsa marriage sufficient maturity you're not, and your marriage doomed to be destroyed is . One of the women much more often couples vücutsal complaints, fainting, and a nervous breakdown and moved to the hospital emergency department, medical doctors around. In this period, it's not sedece, you also experience psychological problems or have vücutsal is natural. Sharp vinegar jar damages the behavior of your gastrointestinal system, skin problems, sexual problems, cardio-vascular system disorders such as psychosomatic problems to live yolaçacaktır.Bazen also in these cases the women to a place far swallowed the can, his wife, age of retirement at the age until the expected and After the work is reversed. Male domination of women, this time can take home and "take out ah bitty waist bitty waist of the oppressed" as a proverb on revenge can take years.

Solution other than death as the last word is everything. The worst thing in life, those made in the past or do in the future for "wish" is to start with saying. So whatever you do, think about your future wisely and well, you need to make sure. See everything as a long-term, not focus on small things. Before leaving each other, give one last chance to change, learning has no age and location, human development is an asset, marital therapy with a psychiatrist to get started. Better quality than we civilized coexistence for all of you guys and I wish you can grow.